What can research tell us about relationship quality?
Research describes many couples’ experiences. It does not decide whether someone’s love is “mature”.
Understanding the topic
Instead of defining mature love, you can look at experiences that feel satisfying, difficult or unclear. This is an invitation to reflect, not a list of requirements.
What the research says
Joel and colleagues analysed 43 dyadic longitudinal datasets. People’s reports about their relationships were associated with relationship quality, but changes over time were largely unpredictable.
Source for this section: Samantha Joel i współautorzy
Limits of these findings
Self-reported associations do not establish causes. A statistical model cannot measure a particular person’s love or classify them as mature or immature.
An optional starting point
You could describe one welcome experience and one uncertainty. Note what happened and how you experienced it, without assigning motives to the other person.
Key point
Takeaway
Relationship quality and how much someone loves are not interchangeable measurements.
Read further
Sources
Samantha Joel i współautorzy. Machine learning uncovers the most robust self-report predictors of relationship quality across 43 longitudinal couples studies. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 2020.
Analiza 43 dyadycznych zbiorów podłużnych / analysis of 43 dyadic longitudinal datasets
DOI: 10.1073/pnas.1917036117
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